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Worstel je met opwinding (teveel of te weinig)?

  Mirjam     20-03-2019     Comments (0)

Worstel je met opwinding (teveel of te weinig)? Come as you are! Dat is de titel van een boek van Emily Nagoski die ik op dit moment aan het lezen ben. Ik ben zo mega enthousiast over het boek en  had gewild dat ik deze 10 jaar geleden had gelezen toen ik zelf worstelde met seks binnen mijn relatie. Waarom? kennis geeft nieuwe inzichten in jezelf in je gedrag en creëert een opening om anders te doen. En ik kan niet wachten om jou op een eenvoudige manier uit te leggen hoe opwinding werkt zodat jij hier jouw inzichten uit kunt halen en meer rust, helderheid krijgt over wat jou opwindt en weet dat je hier ook invloed op kunt uitoefenen en je seksleven kunt verrijken. TWEE MECHANISMEN We hebben twee mechanisme in ons die los van elkaar effect uitoefenen op onze opwinding. Onze rem, eeze wordt gereguleerd door het deel van ons ervoor zorgt dat we overleven. Daarom...

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Negative Sexual Beliefs

  26-02-2019     Comments (0)

Negative Sexual Beliefs “Sex is a highway to God”, is a quote I read or heard somewhere years ago. Although I don’t belief in ‘God’ I believe there’s an Energetic Field which responds to my intention. So that’s why I replaced ‘God’ for ‘cosmos’ and felt this quote fits my like a glove, because growth makes me feel great. It doesn’t matter in which area of life. My intention for this blog is to share with you how you can use your negative sexual beliefs in order for you to grow and expand into more YOU! I’d love for you to connect more and deeper with you body, emotions, sexuality and spirit. MY PATH ISN'T YOURS Although my search for this highway to ‘God’ let me to de-armouring and the Healing Tantric path, this doesn’t mean you have to do the same. For...

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Self Pleasure Yourself For Real

  13-02-2019     Comments (0)

Self Pleasure Yourself For Real When I see all those red hearts, flowers and Valentine stuff in stores I’m wondering, is there a  deeper, stronger, greater and more magical form of love then self love? No, there is not if you ask me! It doesn't matter if you’re with someone or single. Self love comes in many forms, but the ultimate form of self love is self pleasure! Isn’t it? To give yourself those high vibrations of love, pleasure, joy who doesn’t want that?! I know I do! In this blog I’ll share some of my findings on self pleasure and hope to inspire you to deepen your self pleasure skills for the sake of self love!   “Sexuality, just like eating, is the foundation of our pyramid's need for life and thus forms an important part of our quality of life. Self Pleasure is just like preparing a healthy meal...

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why working hard doesn't work

  Mirjam     04-02-2019     Comments (0)

why working hard doesn't work Work hard. Whe you hear that do you also think 'fuck that?!'. If so this blog might interest you. I'm starting to understand more and more why 'working hard' doesn't work as well as doing less. I'm raised with the idea working hard is something to strive for. If you work hard you're worthy of life , then you deserve to be succesful. This is total BS if you ask me! I know there are plenty of people out there who figured out to be a magnet for succes. who thrive instead of survive and work hard. In this blog I'll share my most recent insights on change, why working hard doesn't always work as well.  YOUR NEGATIVE SUBCONSCIOUS BODY IS RUNNING THE SHOW! Oke here's the deal. Only 5% of our thoughts and thinking is conscious, which means 95% isn't conscious. You...

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the spirital side of sex

  Mirjam     11-01-2019     Comments (0)

the spirital side of sex When I was talking with a friend back home, she told me “You talk about sex all the time and I don’t really get you anymore these days”.  This made me think am I now one of those person who talks about sex all the time?! Writing this I notice shame and judgement around admitting that I love to talk about sex. Somehow I labeled sex as something shallow, unimportant to me as a law graduate, with a career in online marketing. Today the sexual arena is actually my biggest teacher!  I NTELLIGENT PEOPLE TALK ABOUT WORLD PROBLEMS NOT SEX Sex sells! We all know that the porn industry is one of the biggest money making industries and uses the power of sex and sexual energy. And yet I question that we as human species understand the depths and importance of this potent suppressed energies. I definitely...

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Understanding pleasure with this concept

  Mirjam     11-01-2019     Comments (0)

Understanding pleasure with this concept I have three questions for you.  I really invite you to take time to answer before you head on to the next question. One. ‘When you orgasm, how does it feel like?’ Ready for the next? Two ‘How do you know if you had an orgasm?’ Now three, my last one ‘Do you know how to increase/infulence your pleasure? I guess answering those questions wasn’t very easy, was it? To be honest, it was kind of hard for me to answer these questions too during a workshop I did. In this blog I’ll share what Susanne Rousgaard (my super duper favorite teacher) thaught us about the elements infulencing pleasure. I call it the “Pleasure Triangle” and am happy to share this with you since it helps to get a better understanding. Elements influencing your pleasure The pleasure triangle shows us three...

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