The spirital side of sex

When I was talking with a friend back home, she told me “You talk about sex all the time and I don’t really get you anymore these days”.  This made me think am I now one of those person who talks about sex all the time?! Writing this I notice shame and judgement around admitting that I love to talk about sex. Somehow I labeled sex as something shallow, unimportant to me as a law graduate, with a career in online marketing. Today the sexual arena is actually my biggest teacher! 


INTELLIGENT PEOPLE TALK ABOUT WORLD PROBLEMS NOT SEX

Sex sells! We all know that the porn industry is one of the biggest money making industries and uses the power of sex and sexual energy. And yet I question that we as human species understand the depths and importance of this potent suppressed energies. I definitely didn’t.  created a prison of fear, guilt, shame and judgement around it. “Intelligent people talk about world problems, not sex”.

SEX IS A HIGHWAY TO GOD

My life totally changed when I started to pay attention to myself as a sexual being. For the better. I feel more energized, alive, free. More me. There’s way more to sex then I could ever imagine, it’s a spiritual practice for me. Isn’t it the coolest practice there is? I mean, if you can choose one, what would you choose?!  This sexual arena wasn’t always like that, it can be a teacher if you pay attention. I’m making a shift and leaving the old paradigm regarding sex.

OLD VERSUS NEW STYLE OF SEX
Old me New Me
* Unconscious *Conscious
* Physical body is primary object, especially the sexual organs. * Involves all my body’s (physical, erotic, energetic, emotional, astral)
* Focused on orgasm      * Focused on present moment
* Static  * Playful
* Something that happens or needs to be done without a higher goal * Spiritual practice, with an intention and a higher goal
* No/little communication * Communication at all times (before, during and after about desires, boundaries, aftercare.
* Assuming that the other knows what I want/need (partner is responsible)    * Speaking my desires/boundaries (self responsibility)
* Loss of energy    * Energizes & heals  

 

  Mirjam     11-01-2019 13:43     Reacties ( 0 )

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